As a mom and family photographer, I know the whirlwind of emotions that come with trying to plan family photos. You want images that feel real, that capture your family’s unique spark—but you also know that kids are wonderfully unpredictable. Here’s the good news: I’m here for it. Every single smile, squirm, and burst of laughter. Over the years, I’ve crafted a kid-inclusive approach that lets your kids just be themselves, bringing out all the beautiful, natural moments that make your family yours. And as a fellow parent, I know exactly how to help you prep so the experience is not only smooth but genuinely fun for everyone.
Why Letting Kids Be Themselves Works
My goal as your photographer isn’t just to create beautiful images—it’s to document the real stuff. I’m talking about those little in-between moments: a big brother reaching for his sister’s hand, a toddler’s proud grin after a cartwheel attempt, a spontaneous snuggle that just can’t be posed. By creating an environment where kids are free to explore, laugh, and play, we allow space for those pure, honest moments to shine through. Kids feel at ease when they can be themselves, and this natural energy and spontaneity come to life in the photos, giving you a gallery full of memories, not just pictures.
The Kid-Inclusive Approach: A Session for the Whole Family
Letting kids be kids is at the heart of every session I offer. As a mom, I know what it’s like to cross your fingers and hope everyone “behaves” for the camera. But trust me—some of the best moments happen when everyone just lets go a little. We’ll start with prompts that encourage movement and curiosity, like “show me how high you can jump” or “who can make the silliest face?” These gentle cues help kids settle in, transforming the session into a series of playful moments where each personality shines. Plus, as a parent, you get to relax and enjoy each other, knowing I’m capturing the magic.
Tips for Prepping for a Kid-Friendly Family Photo Session
To help you make the most of your session, here are my tried-and-true tips for setting up a smooth, enjoyable experience:
1. Involve Your Kids in Choosing Outfits
Trust me—when kids feel included from the start, they’re more likely to be excited about the day. Let them help pick their outfit (from a few options you love too!) or choose a favorite accessory. Go for comfortable, weather-appropriate clothing that lets them move and play, so they’re not restricted during the session. This simple choice not only makes them feel empowered but also helps avoid any last-minute meltdowns over scratchy tags or “too-tight” shoes.
2. Bring Snacks and Comfort Items
I can’t tell you how many times a little snack has saved the day! Pack a few favorite snacks that are easy to eat (and won’t leave sticky hands) along with any comfort items they may love. I’ve had sessions where a well-loved teddy bear or a special toy truck has made a cameo, and it’s all part of telling your family’s story. These comfort items can help soothe little ones and, surprisingly often, turn into meaningful keepsakes within your photos.
3. Set the Scene for Adventure
Instead of saying, “We’re going to take family photos,” tell your kids we’re heading out for an adventure together. Explain that they’ll get to explore, play, and have fun as a family, and that I’ll be there to capture all the fun along the way. Framing the session as an outing makes it less of a “task” and more of a family experience—one they’ll look forward to! Letting kids know they can play, dance, and explore allows them to feel excited and comfortable from the get-go.
4. Stay Flexible and Go with the Flow
Kids will be kids, and that’s a beautiful thing! If your child wants to check out a nearby tree, splash in a puddle, or suddenly feels like showing off their latest “superhero pose,” let’s lean into it! I’ve found that following their lead often brings out some of the most genuine smiles and laughter, capturing the true essence of who they are. So, take a deep breath and trust that I’ll be ready to capture the magic, no matter where their little feet take us.
Why These Moments Matter
These sessions aren’t just about capturing what you look like as a family; they’re about preserving what it feels like to be part of your family. Years from now, when you look back at these images, I want you to remember not just the session but the personalities, quirks, and love that make your family unique. The giggles, the big sibling’s playful teasing, the way your youngest holds your hand without thinking twice—these are the moments that tell your family’s story, and that’s what I’m here to capture.
The Gift of Being Present
Family photo sessions are as much for you, the parents, as they are for your kids. They’re a chance to slow down and be fully present with your loved ones. So, let go of the need for “perfect” and embrace the joy of simply being together. I’ll take care of the rest, documenting each laugh, cuddle, and spontaneous moment as it happens.
If you’re ready to capture your family in a way that’s true to who you are, let’s make it happen. I can’t wait to meet your little crew and document the unique energy and love that make you a family. Let’s create something beautiful—memories that will bring you right back to this time in your lives, years down the road.
